W5-3/3 The Importance of Friendliness in Office Culture (7/26)
On Thursday I attended a
lunch break with some other workers and I was given some sound advice. Advice
that I really needed to hear and something that I feel like I have really been
missing in my workplace skillset. When it comes to professional environments a
lot of times, I am far too formal and stiff. I was told that for the most part
I would have a good chance to be hired for a job in the computer science field
except that I am not too personable and that could hurt my chances as employers
might think that I would not fit in well with office/corporate culture.
I have always had a very strict face when it comes to more formal
matters. My father’s family is formal to a ridiculous extreme that I have never
seen anyone else even come even close to rivaling and it is of course a very
grave matter to that side of my family. When I played football (from
kindergarten to my senior year of high school) formality was also very, very
important. Taking it easy was not an option and to call it a game was a great
insult to any coach. I think these experiences have grown on me and kind of
shaped me to practice “professionalism” in a similar manner.
I need to really loosen up
and be more outgoing in the office environment. Part of working with someone is
socializing with them and if I am not pleasant to socialize with then I am less
likely to be hired. Even more so the impressions we give a person during an
interview are highly based off how we interact with our interviewer not just if
we can answer questions correctly and have a nice-looking resume/CV. I’m going
to start being more outgoing towards the employees of my internship and I am
going to try to be less stiff about things. I want to stand out somewhat.
Blending in with wallpaper of wallflowers wouldn’t be much better than being
stiff so I must be a good acquaintance to those I work with and at least leave
some small impression as friendly worker.
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